Did you ever have a dream like that? A dream in which you are sure you know where you are going, only to find yourself lost? Having a dream of being lost is very common. It can make you feel confused and irritated when you cannot find the right way to where you want to go. Some dreams may include looking for a lost friend. What is the “lost” dream all about? How does it reflect upon what is going on in our real lives? Can we learn from dreams like this?
Losing Your Way
Dreams of being lost can vary and have many different meanings. The type of dream mentioned above is your mind’s way of telling you that you have lost your way in life. Are you paying attention to what is really important in life, or are insignificant things draining you of all your time and attention? If so, you may be losing focus of the big picture. Stop and re-evaluate your life. Make sure that significant areas in your life – marriage, children, and spirituality – are not being ignored because you have no time for them.

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Another “lost” dream scenario is similar to the first one, but this time, you may find yourself in a scary neighbourhood. You are so frightened to be there that stopping to ask for directions is not a possibility. The only thing you want to do is get home, but no matter which way you turn, you cannot seem to find your way. You may awaken scared and fearful. This type of lost dream may signify a difficult decision with which you are being faced. One route may be familiar, but keep you from what you really want. The other route may be unfamiliar, but ultimately will be more satisfying.
Look at your life closely to see what decisions may be making you uncomfortable. For example, maybe you are thinking of leaving your hometown of many years to move closer to family. While the prospect of leaving something as familiar to you as your hometown is scary, the ability to be closer to family – both physically and emotionally – will be a greater payoff in the end. Maybe you are thinking about leaving a job that is boring, but comfortable to start a new career, doing something you love, but with an unpredictable future. Look closely at your choices to see which one would ultimately make you happier. It is always frightening to leave the familiar, but the payoff of an important change could be immense.
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Losing Someone Important
Yet another type of lost dream is one in which you lose someone important to you. Maybe you are shopping and you lose a friend and spend the dream searching for them. Of course, you never find them in your dream and you wake up feeling frustrated and sad. The meaning of this type of “lost” dream is pretty clear-cut. Think of people in your life and determine if there is someone important, with which you have lost contact. Examine why that person is no longer in your life. It may be that the reason you lost contact with them now seems petty. If so, contacting that person may put your mind at ease.
Dreams of being lost can be scary – after all, no one likes to feel like they are wandering aimlessly and cannot find their way home. Take time to examine your life, re-evaluate your priorities, see what pressing decisions you have to deal with or what friendships have been lost and for what reasons. If you can sort through those feelings, you may find your dreams of being lost going vanishing.
It was very vivid and I felt unnerved by it when I woke up
I had a dream and i was coming from my mother in law's house but on my way back i was driving then all of a sudden i was walking and i got lost and mostly it was a gravel road but got lost in between the houses then came across my late uncle, i ask hin for the directions, he gave me directions but still got lost, what can such a dream mean?
I had a dream and i was ciming grom my mother in law's house but in my way back i was driving then all of a sudden i was walking and i got lost and mostly it was a gravel road but got list in between the houses then came across my late uncle, i azk them fir the directions, they gave me directions but still got lost, what can such a dream mean?
Same dream happened I was in a mall, and don't know where I need to be, but always see the way and can't get to it.
Other time was in a train, seeing my train but couldn't get to it, and end up leaving. ??
I don’t know what that means. Also I have never moved.
i have a dream where i was with my bosslady and we were looking nor waiting for our bossman who was on the meeting but while waiting for him my bosslady told me to go to the car she will follow me .. then when i go to the car hell broke loose when i saw my self walking in narrow scary places. steps i took was not strong enough, and i found myself walking in difficult high places..
the first i am at a picnic with my sister i believe. ( i dont see myself or her, its like im watching it from my own eye view or something). in my dream i know there more or there should be more people around but i dont see them. although i dont see my sister either it like shes next to me but im looking forward. she tells me abount wanting to go back with the ex and i tell her bad idea. all of sudden were inna car being washed through the windshield i can see my aunt and cousin but they just stare. we decide to leave, sister and I, and am assuming shes driving. shes driving the car only in reverse which in my dream i ask why and get no answer. she drives through two parking lots like that and then as she exists the parking lot she parks on the street. as were getting out i ask where we were and wake up.
the second dream, i arrive at a building filled with people, but for some reason we have to get ready to leave. I am waiting for this man to finish packing a little boys stuff so i can take him with me. The little boy is sick and i want to take him to the near by clinic. as i wait for him i walk back and forth from the door to where the little boy is and notice i cant take any of the pathways available. i get a sense that i cant be seen. that no one in that building can. we are either hiding or trying to get somewhere unseen. i wake up.
i was being chased by something or someone around several abandon buildings for awhile that suddenly turned into streets and then i was running down the streets carrying my running shoes running barefoot i was trying to get away from someone so I keep going into hidden alleys trying to get away from them but they followed me then when i went down anther ally i was suddenly in my old house where i use to live when i was married i was in the front room standing and it was dark inside the house and it was night time so it was also dark outside and then i was sitting in a chair looking out the window then the next thing i know my ex sister in law is talking to me only i can't see her or hear what she is saying its like it was just her presence there then suddenly her presence is gone and my ex-husband is standing there only he is just looking at me then he is gone and that is when i wake up with a sense of sadness and very upset feelings if anyone can help me understand this dream i would be so grateful
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The second night I dreamt of losing my directions again in the same town, my own hometown. If I remember correctly, I was there for work or something, I think I was carrying my laptop. I was trying to get home but I got lost. From a place that look familiar to me to a place that is totally unfamiliar. I was going round and round again and the unfamiliar place seems unsafe. There are strangers (men) staring at me as I walked. I decided to use GRAB (company that offers ride-hailing), but I just couldn't find any applications on my cell phone. I continue walking and going round and round until finally I saw someone familiar, my relatives. I decided to walk over to join them.
I dreamt and lost my way buh I know the road already but lost it all completely and then was walking with one of respectful colleague. We got to a scary place and passed there. Was still walking and couldnt locate the place. We got to a place and someone, a friendly lady volunteered to show me who will direct us to our former place (where we came from), as we were discussing, and people came around to show us the way. The way one of the guys sounded, it seems we would pass through water to get to our destination.
One of the guys to take me to the place asked me if I can still remember where we were going, I said yes and explained to him buh lo and behold, I couldnt see the guy (my colleague) that was with me. I was worried and do not know where to start looking for him buh I concluded in my mind to follow them so that they show me the road. They have already started to go, when I now remembered to take that my friendly lady's phone number so that I can call her when i get to where I was going and also to ask her how much it will take me to get where I was going bcos I do not have enough cash in my purse. I was removing the password from my phone inorder to take her phone number before i woke up from sleep.
Pls, what could be the meaning of this. Thank you very much and more grace
after the river there was killing o animals or war/choas. Please i ask you a favor to email me the answer ??
I just think this dream is strange to me and i would like your advice...
1 I dreamt where I'm at school writing exams but I don't finish writing until time is up
2 I dreamt where someone takes my money or lost my wallet or someone cut my bank card into pieces
3 I dreamt about going home but get lost and I don't reach home until I wake up
Please explain to me and give solutions
1. I am driving to work but I'm barely moving. Terrified that I will be late,I struggle hard to move faster. I finally get there to discover that I've forgotten how to do my job.Terrified that I'm going to be fired,I wake up and am releived that i'ts a dream.
2. I am walking to work and forget how to get there. I stop to ask for directions and I am either ignored or given bad directions. I never get to work and wake up.
3. I am trying to walk home and I can't find my way. Every direction is wrong. I am faced with numerous obstacles. Every time I figure out how to get through one,another pops up. I finally get to a street near my home, I run into street flooding. I am terrified. I'm afraid of drowning,I can't swim ,I don't get home I wake up.
I have been looking back at my dream diary ( going back many years ) and was wandering " where do our dreams come from " do they come from our higher self ? or helpers in other dimensions ?
Some of my dreams have been very accurate in foretelling future events and in many cases these dreams have been given to me in comical ways making me laugh out loud ! whilst the most profound ones have been illustrated in the simplest of ways possible for example, last year i dreamed of a tiny person peeking out from a HUGE lampshade, that very morning i received a shockingly high utility bill from my electricity supplier and had to seek help from a larger organisation to sort out the error of it all. I now realise how simple that message was, the large lampshade was a form of protection against the strong glare of a utility company and i was the little person being protected and helped by a large organisation! all very amazing..
After reading back my dream description, i began to slowly make sense of what my dreams were actually trying to tell me. In real life i am usually controlled and prepared but in my dreams i leave a place of safety unprepared ( no cell, no money, no paperwork, no direction. ) I am an elderly lady and my son recently revealed his true nasty self and this has devastated me, i guess i was unprepared for my eyes to be opened. The lack of sunshine in my dreams is important because i always referred to my son as ( my Sun ) so, he will never shine for me again. I really do have to try to pick up the pieces ( rubble ) of my life and find a new direction. Alas no help from close family due to the fact that they all passed many years ago.
" I have left my hotel for a lovely walk, suddenly the scene changes, all the buildings look the same, all the roads look the same, i am now lost with no money, my cell won't work and i don't have the address for my hotel which means i can't ask for directions so i can't be helped to get back!
I am walking down a street and most of the buildings are just rubble, like a building site or a bomb site all very apocalyptic. I still have no money or cell or any thing on me to get me out. Meeting a family who are willing to drive me somewhere gives me hope but they can't start their car or the kids are playing up and its all taking so long, meanwhile the sky is getting darker and darker and the day is getting colder and colder. "
After some time, I walked out of the cafe. And I realized that I had got lost. The majority of the dream was about running/walking on the road to get back to my home (or possibly back to that cafe). While running on the road, I came across a swing, the one that is usually there in children's playgrounds. I hopped on to the swing and was trying to swing only to find out that it was too low for me because my entire lower body was touching the ground. Hence, it was probably for someone way to smaller than me. So I continued to look for my home. Again, looking a way to get back was around 80% of my dream. Finally I came across a building of sorts. I entered it cautiously. Moving through the building, I came across a wall that had long greean insects crawling across it. And right next to wall I saw a passage that had light coming out of it. Since the entire dream till now was during twilight, the bright light clearly showed that the passage would take me out of the building and to the place where I wanna go. I swiftly ran through the passage and out of the building and I was a little relieved/happy. I stood there for a second trying to figure out where I should go next now that I have come to a clearly better place. And then suddenly one of those long insects (the color was greenish to dark) moved on the ground right next to my leg. I got alarmed and spotted another one moving swiftly one the ground next to me on the other side. I gasped and that is when I woke up.
If it helps, I am a 22 year old male student. A couple days ago, I had a dream of cockroaches.
Kindly help me to figure out what my subconscious is trying to tell me.
Thanks.
Thank n regards
I would hate to make the wrong choice and end up unhappy....so I’m thinking this is not the right thing to do at the moment.
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